Marriage
كتاب النكاح
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Hadith
Narrated 'Amr bin Shu'aib on his father's authority from his grandfather:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "If any woman marries for a dowry, a gift, or a promise before contracting the marriage, it belongs to her. As for whatever is fixed to her after contracting the marriage, it belongs to whomever it has been given. The most worthy gift a man is honored with is what he gets on account of (the marriage of) his daughter or sister." [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a except at-Tirmidhi].
وَعَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ , عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -{ أَيُّمَا اِمْرَأَةٍ نَكَحَتْ عَلَى صَدَاقٍ , أَوْ حِبَاءٍ , أَوْ عِدَةٍ , قَبْلَ عِصْمَةِ اَلنِّكَاحِ , فَهُوَ لَهَا, وَمَا كَانَ بَعْدَ عِصْمَةِ اَلنِّكَاحِ , فَهُوَ لِمَنْ أُعْطِيَهُ, وَأَحَقُّ مَا أُكْرِمَ اَلرَّجُلُ عَلَيْهِ اِبْنَتُهُ , أَوْ أُخْتُهُ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ إِلَّا اَلتِّرْمِذِيَّ [1] .
Narrated 'Alqamah on the authority of Ibn Mas'ud (RA):
He was asked about a man who had married a woman and had not fixed a dowry for her. And he did not consummate (the marriage) with her till he died. Ibn Mas'ud replied, "She should receive a dowry similar to what the women of her community receive without decrease or increase. She must observe the 'Iddah period (of waiting before re-marrying and is entitled to a share of the inheritance." Ma'qil bin Sinan al-Ashja'i then got up and said, "Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) ruled the same as your ruling regarding Birwa', daughter of Washiq, a woman of our tribe." Ibn Mas'ud was delighted with it. [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a. at-Tirmidhi graded it Sahih (authentic), while a group (of Hadith scholars) graded it Hasan (good)]. Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah (RA): The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "If anyone gives as a dowry to a woman some flour or dates, he has made her lawful for himself." [Abu Dawud reported it, and indicated that the stronger opinion is that it is Mawquf (saying of a Companion)].
وَعَنْ عَلْقَمَةَ , عَنِ ابْنِ مَسْعُودٍ - رضى الله عنه - { أَنَّهُ سُئِلَ عَنْ رَجُلٍ تَزَوَّجَ اِمْرَأَةً , وَلَمْ يَفْرِضْ لَهَا صَدَاقًا , وَلَمْ يَدْخُلْ بِهَا حَتَّى مَاتَ , فَقَالَ اِبْنُ مَسْعُودٍ : لَهَا مِثْلُ صَدَاقِ نِسَائِهَا , لَا وَكْسَ , وَلَا شَطَطَ , وَعَلَيْهَا اَلْعِدَّةُ , وَلَهَا اَلْمِيرَاثُ، فَقَامَ مَعْقِلُ بْنُ سِنَانٍ الْأَشْجَعِيُّ فَقَالَ : قَضَى رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -فِي بِرْوَعَ بِنْتِ وَاشِقٍ - اِمْرَأَةٍ مِنَّا - مِثْلَ مَا قَضَيْتَ , فَفَرِحَ بِهَا اِبْنُ مَسْعُودٍ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَالْجَمَاعَةُ [1] 1032 - وَعَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ - رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا- { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -قَالَ : " مَنْ أَعْطَى فِي صَدَاقِ اِمْرَأَةٍ [2] سَوِيقًا , أَوْ تَمْرًا , فَقَدْ اِسْتَحَلَّ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَأَشَارَ إِلَى تَرْجِيحِ وَقْفِهِ [3] .
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Aamir bin Rabi'ah on the authority of his father:
The Prophet (ﷺ) gave his approval of the marriage of a woman for two sandals as a dowry. [at-Tirmidhi reported it and graded it Sahih (authentic), but he was opposed in that (grading of the Hadith)].
وَعَنْ عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ بْنِ عَامِرِ بْنِ رَبِيعَةَ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -أَجَازَ نِكَاحَ اِمْرَأَةٍ عَلَى نَعْلَيْنِ } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَصَحَّحَهُ , وَخُولِفَ فِي ذَلِكَ [1] .
Narrated Sahl bin Sa' (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) married a man to a woman for a dowry of an iron ring. [al-Hakim reported it].
وَعَنْ سَهْلِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ - رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا- قَالَ : { زَوَّجَ اَلنَّبِيُّ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -رَجُلاً اِمْرَأَةً بِخَاتَمٍ مِنْ حَدِيدٍ } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ [1] .
It is a portion of the long Hadith preceding in the beginning of the Book of Marriage.
وَهُوَ طَرَفٌ مِنَ الْحَدِيثِ اَلطَّوِيلِ اَلْمُتَقَدِّمِ فِي أَوَائِلِ اَلنِّكَاحِ [1] .
Narrated 'Ali (RA):
The dowry should not be less than ten Dirhams. [ad-Daraqutni reported it as Mawquf (saying of a Companion, i.e. 'Ali). Also, its chain of narrators is questionable].
وَعَنْ عَلَيٍّ - رضى الله عنه - قَالَ : { لَا يَكُونُ اَلْمَهْرُ أَقَلَّ مِنْ عَشَرَةِ دَرَاهِمَ } . أَخْرَجَهُ اَلدَّارَقُطْنِيُّ مَوْقُوفًا , وَفِي سَنَدِهِ مَقَالٌ [1] .
Narrated 'Uqbah bin 'Aamir (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The best dowry is that which is most easy." [Abu Dawud reported it and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic)].
وَعَنْ عُقْبَةَ بْنِ عَامِرٍ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -{ خَيْرُ اَلصَّدَاقِ أَيْسَرُهُ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَصَحَّحَهُ اَلْحَاكِمُ [1] .
Narrated 'Aishah (RA):
'Amrah (RA) daughter al-Jaun sought refuge (in Allah) from Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) when she was brought in to him - meaning when he married her - and he said, "You have sought refuge in the One Worthy of seeking refuge in." Then he divorced her, and commanded Usama who gave her three garments as a gift (i.e. dowry). [Ibn Majah reported it, but there is a rejected narrator in its chain of narrators].
لَقَدْ عُذْتِ بِمَعَاذٍ
The origin of the aforesaid story is found in the Sahih of al-Bukhari from Abu Usaid as-Sa'idi's Hadith.
اَلصَّحِيحِ
Narrated Anas bin Malik (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) saw the trace of yellow color on 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf (RA) and asked, "What is this?" He replied, "O Messenger of Allah, I have married a woman for a Nawat weight (equal to one weight of a date-stone) of gold." He said. "May Allah bless you! Hold a wedding feast, even if with a sheep (only)." [Agreed upon; the wording is Muslim's].
عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ - رضى الله عنه - { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -رَأَى عَلَى عَبْدِ اَلرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَوْفٍ أَثَرَ صُفْرَةٍ , قَالَ : " مَا هَذَا ? " , قَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ! إِنِّي تَزَوَّجْتُ اِمْرَأَةً عَلَى وَزْنِ نَوَاةٍ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ. فَقَالَ : " فَبَارَكَ اَللَّهُ لَكَ , أَوْلِمْ وَلَوْ بِشَاةٍ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِمُسْلِمٍ [1] .
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "When one of you is invited to a wedding feast he must attend it." [Agreed upon].
وَعَنْ اِبْنِ عُمَرَ - رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -{ إِذَا دُعِيَ أَحَدُكُمْ إِلَى اَلْوَلِيمَةِ فَلْيَأْتِهَا } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ [1] .
Muslims has:
"When one of you invites his brother, he must respond (i.e. attend), whether it is a wedding or something similar."
وَلِمُسْلِمٍ : { إِذَا دَعَا أَحَدُكُمْ أَخَاهُ , فَلْيُجِبْ; عُرْسًا كَانَ أَوْ نَحْوَهُ } [1] .
Narrated Abu Hurairah (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The worst kind of food is that at a wedding feast from which those who come (i.e. the poor) are turned away, and to which those who refuse (i.e. the rich) are invited. If anyone does not accept an invitation he has disobeyed Allah and His Messenger." [Reported by Muslim].
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ - رضى الله عنه - قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -{ شَرُّ اَلطَّعَامِ طَعَامُ اَلْوَلِيمَةِ: يُمْنَعُهَا مَنْ يَأْتِيهَا , وَيُدْعَى إِلَيْهَا مَنْ يَأْبَاهَا , وَمَنْ لَمْ يُجِبِ اَلدَّعْوَةَ فَقَدْ عَصَى اَللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ } أَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ [1] .
Narrated [Abu Hurairah (RA)]:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), "When one of you is invited (to a meal) he must accept. If he is fasting he should pray (i.e. make supplication for the host) and if he is not fasting he should eat." [Muslim reported it too].
وَعَنْهُ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -{ إِذَا دُعِيَ أَحَدُكُمْ فَلْيُجِبْ ; فَإِنْ كَانَ صَائِمًا فَلْيُصَلِّ , وَإِنْ كَانَ مُفْطِرًا فَلْيُطْعَمْ } أَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ أَيْضًا [1] .
Muslim has something similar to the above from the Hadith of Jabir (RA), it goes:
"If he wishes he may eat, and if he wishes he may leave (the food alone)."
وَلَهُ مِنْ حَدِيثِ جَابِرٍ نَحْوُهُ . وَقَالَ : { فَإِنْ شَاءَ طَعِمَ وَإِنْ شَاءَ تَرَكَ } [1] .
Narrated Ibn Mas'ud (RA):
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "The food of Walima on the first day is a duty, that on the second day is a Sunnah, while the third is showing off. Whoever (does something) to show-off, Allah will expose him (in the Hereafter)." [Reported by at-Tirmidhi who considered it Gharib (transmitted through a single narrator)]. [It is incorrectly claimed that] its narrators are those who are reported from in the Sahih (collection of al-Bukhari)].
This Hadith also has a supporting narration collected by Ibn Majah on the authority of Anas (RA).
وَلَهُ شَاهِدٌ : عَنْ أَنَسٍ عِنْدَ اِبْنِ مَاجَهْ [1] .
Narrated Safiya (RA), daughter of Shaiba:
The Prophet (ﷺ) held a wedding feast for one of his wives with two Mudd of barley. [Reported by al-Bukhari].
وَعَنْ صَفِيَّةَ بِنْتِ شَيْبَةَ قَالَتْ : { أَوْلَمَ اَلنَّبِيُّ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -عَلَى بَعْضِ نِسَائِهِ بِمُدَّيْنِ مِنْ شَعِيرٍ } أَخْرَجَهُ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ [1] .
Narrated Anas (RA):
The Prophet (ﷺ) stayed three nights between Khaibar and al-Madinah when he consummated his marriage with Safiya (RA). I called the Muslims to his wedding feast which did not include bread or meat. He just ordered some leather dining sheets to be spread, and [Hais, a food made from] dates, sun-baked yogurt and butter were thrown on them. [Agreed upon: the wording is al-Bukhari's].
وَعَنْ أَنَسٍ قَالَ : { أَقَامَ اَلنَّبِيُّ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -بَيْنَ خَيْبَرَ وَالْمَدِينَةِ ثَلَاثَ لَيَالٍ , يُبْنَى عَلَيْهِ بِصَفِيَّةَ , فَدَعَوْتُ اَلْمُسْلِمِينَ إِلَى وَلِيمَتِهِ , فَمَا كَانَ فِيهَا مِنْ خُبْزٍ وَلَا لَحْمٍ , وَمَا كَانَ فِيهَا إِلَّا أَنْ أَمَرَ بِالْأَنْطَاعِ , فَبُسِطَتْ , فَأُلْقِيَ عَلَيْهَا اَلتَّمْرُ , وَالْأَقِطُ , وَالسَّمْنُ. } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِلْبُخَارِيِّ [1] .
Narrated a Companion of the Prophet (ﷺ):
"When two people come together to issue an invitation, accept that of the one whose door is nearer to you. However, if one of them comes before the other, accept the invitation of the first." [Reported by Abu Dawud, its chain of narrators is weak].
وَعَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ اَلنَّبِيِّ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -قَالَ : { إِذَا اِجْتَمَعَ دَاعِيَانِ , فَأَجِبْ أَقْرَبَهُمَا بَابًا , فَإِنْ سَبَقَ أَحَدُهُمَا فَأَجِبِ اَلَّذِي سَبَقَ } رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ , وَسَنَدُهُ ضَعِيفٌ [1] .